my ideal guy shld nt be :

1) whinny

meaning he soes nt complain abt e slightest thing . ya anything & everything like

how small & boring sg is

how hot & glaring e sun is

or tt how tired he feel or forever saying tt he's unwell (wat a whimp!) etc.

2) full of himself

always trying to act macho & cool but is actually a bapok or sissy inside. below r a few egs.

-is ur ex as tall as i m when he's obviously below 170cm & i'm almost taller  than him with my 3cm heels on

-is ur ex as fit/strong as i m when its obviously fats tt he has on him. & fit my foot! if ur fit than y whine abt being sick or feelin unwell? eg is e muscle ache at e end of e day or tt u think ur gg to be down w fever/ cough/ sorethroat again!

3) thinks he noe everything

w obivously he does. & upoon commenting on stuff & having e facts all wrong, i tried correcing him but he argue his way thru'. ya. every1 is so stoopid except mighty u

4) dunno when to stop

some scenerios r

- doesnt know when to shut up like in e movies whereby ppl is trying to catch wat e characters r saying nt hear u comment or be a smart alec & trying to guess wat's gg to happen nxt

- pda is a no no. but stil despite protest trying to do wat he say is a way for him to show his affection & passion to me

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my ideal guy shld instead (if possible & best of all) be

-SNAG

sensitive to my feelin' & needs. nt an egoistic & dominating male spp.

offer to help out w chores (nt be a coach potato sitting readinf e papers or watching tv & make a mess of e living rm, burp loudly & think its funny)

bonus pts for those who can cook & help do e dishes after a meal.

2) strong

its absolutely normal to be stress out & tires at work. i'm willing to share his worries & burdern if he tells me abt it & tok abt his problems etc. tok & tell. nt whine. there's a diff. male whinners r kinda sissy which my guy shld nt be

3) gentleman.

e usual gestures like holding e door open for her, carrying her heavy barang barangs.

some extras like knowing to do e rite things at e rite time is even better. sending e girl hm is sweet. fetching her frm hm is also sweet. good nite kisses r romantic. but if a girl says no or appear uncomfortable, STOP!

4)  knows a few gd jokes

make her smile when she's feelin down. may it be abt work or family or frenz. jokes always makes me laugh. even if i hear it a 1000x. i'm a fan of jokes & i know plenty. but knowing a few is always handy to brighten up her day or loosen her up a bit.

5) be himself

dun try too hard to impress. so wat if u cant speak eng but only mandarin & hokkien. its ok! speaking eng does nt make u more superior. so stop trying to impress by speaking tt weird language tt u'd made up thinking its purrfect eng. yukes!

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jus (still) feelin' pissed abt ytd. so write a bit abt my tots here. nt to put ppl down or wateva. jus wan release some emotional stuff here.

ya. like ty say i'd already re-accepted him so wat can i do. but things r getting ugly. his egoistic leo traits is surfacing. his false front is uncovered. tt kind & understanding man is gone! a dominating & barbaric man overtakes.

well, i aint gg to do anything. if he doesnt apologise within tis wk (sat is e dateline), then i shall declare myself free. yes, its a deal! 'cause i cant stand such a guy. ya.

prince takuya, when will u ever take me w u?